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Tools For Conscious Awareness
Newsletter For
A Next Step...light center for emotional
healing
Vol 65 -LOVE Addendum- February, 2006
In Truth, Simplicity Love and Service
FEATURES:
JON GORDON: 5 WAYS TO BECOME A LOVE MAGNET
"In letting the heart break open, deeper and deeper, there is a recognition of the capacity of the heart to bear everything and still find love."
- Gangaji -
Beloveds, Be willing to TRUST THE LOVE THAT YOU ARE AND THAT IS.
Young Toni and Young Kelley
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5 WAYS TO BECOME A LOVE MAGNET
When I am asked, "Jon how can I find a loving relationship or how can I create a loving marriage or how can I get over not being loved by my parents or how can I get some love from my company in the form of a raise or promotion," my answer is the same. Become a Love Magnet.
You don't become a Love Magnet by wearing expensive cologne or perfume or by getting a new car or hairstyle or by playing corporate politics. Rather you become a Love Magnet when you become a source of love-when instead of seeking and craving love you become the love you already are. Instead of searching for it in other people you find it within yourself. Sure we all want to be loved and have love in our lives but we'll never find it in others unless we discover it in ourselves first.
The world is a mirror and the love we hope to see out there must be reflected from in here. When you are needy for love you'll always have to fight and struggle to get it. But when you become a Love Magnet you'll attract all the love you could ever want and more. It will flow into your life like a river flows into the ocean. Make your life a haven for love and like a child that jumps into her/his parents arms, love will wrap itself around you and never let go. While there are many ways to become a Love Magnet here are 5 ways you can start today:
1. Let Go of Your Need For Love. While, of course, we all need love - it is our attachment to love that creates a resistance to it. Our neediness forms a kind of cover that blocks our love magnetism. It's part of the laws of energy. The more we try to force something the less likely it is to happen. The more we push something the more the universe pushes back. You can recognize this neediness within yourself if: You think you need a relationship to make you happy; if you are always seeking approval and recognition from your boss or co-workers; if it is more important for people to like you than to be your best self; or if you spend more time trying to meet someone than trying to improve yourself. When you let go of your neediness for love you remove the resistance and you become a more powerful attractor of love. Exercise: Each morning and throughout the day say, "I let go of my need for love and approval. I let go of my ego that defines myself by how others think of me. I am an
abundant source of love. I am all the love that exists in the world. I accept all the love in my life. I let go of my attachment to it but I accept it and allow it to flow."
2. Speak Lovingly to Yourself. We may be kind to others but many of us are extremely hard on ourselves. We berate ourselves and undervalue our self worth. Pay attention to your language and make sure you are kind to yourself. Talk to yourself as if you were talking to a child who needed more confidence. Tell yourself how kind, loving, giving, brilliant, special, talented and beautiful or handsome you are. Just make sure other people aren't listening to you (joke). Don't be shy. Give yourself the love you seek and others will see the difference in you. When you love yourself without arrogance others will be attracted to you and more love will flow into your life. Instead of searching for love, by loving yourself, love will find you.
3. Treat Yourself with Love. Realize you are important. Don't let anyone tell you or cause you to feel otherwise. Then take action by treating yourself with love. Get the massage you don't think you deserve. Buy the shirt you want but never get. Take time for yourself every day. Even if it's only 10 minutes. Take a bath or a long shower. Go hit some golf balls. Read books that inspire you. Give yourself a hug.
4. Become Love in Action. People always think to get love they have to go after it and find it from others. Actually the best way to receive love is to share it. When we become a source of love and share it with our families, co-workers, friends and communities we become one with all the love that exists and it flows to us with ten times the power and grace. When we give love, we open the dam and love pours into our life. So today stop asking how you can get more love from everyone else and start sharing it. But heres the key, many people give love with attachment and neediness. They think they are giving but really they are only giving to suck love and energy back. This doesn't make you a magnet. It makes you an energy vampire. So to be a true love magnet, share love without attachments and expectations. Share your effort and energy without looking over your shoulder to see who is watching. Take action and give of yourself but don't give to get in return. How do you know the
difference? When you give of yourself you feel energized. When you give to get in return you feel drained.
5. Remember Who You Are. When it comes to love we can't not talk about spiritual energy because love and God are one in the same. When you are sharing love you are expressing the spiritual energy of love that is all around you. When you become a source of love you become an expression of the greater and greatest source of love. Remember that you are an expression of this source. You came from this source and you are this source. You may not have been loved by your parents but you have always been part of this source. In remembering this you realize that the love you have always wanted is already within you waiting to be tapped and expressed.
Sending positive energy your way,
- Jon
In Truth, Simplicity, Love and Service,
Om Shanti, Shanti, Shanti, Om Peace
Young Toni Delgado and Young Kelley Elkins
A NEXT STEP.light center for emotional healing
P.O.Box 429
Dona Ana, New Mexico 88032
toni@anextstep.org
www.anextstep.org
505-382-8771
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